This once again points to the importance of having an accurate idea of what you want!
Wouldn’t it be better to take a few months and think it over clearly instead of spending years in relationships that don’t work?
Consider someone who goes from suboptimal relationship to suboptimal relationship, each lasting 2 years with 2 months in between.
You devote a significant portion of your time into that relationship (say a year or two), only to realize later that this person simply does not have the qualities you need to become your husband or wife.
Think about how many people you meet through the course of a year or two.
Whenever you have a problem, it is always a good idea to consider what you want first.
After all, how can something be a problem if it isn’t relevant to something you want?