If your partner tries to prolong a never-ending courting process, it’s time to move on.” It’s not surprising commitment-phobes are afraid of commitment in other areas of their life and this reluctance isn’t exclusive to you and your relationship.“Commitment-phobes often move to the beat to their own drum and are not overly concerned with the impact of their aloof attitude on others,” says Ray.
You see, we had been fighting—as couples do—and I didn’t want to tell her the truth. So long ago, I made the choice to keep my feet firmly planted on dry land. But my family dynamic makes it difficult for me to commit. It’s not because I’m trying to be difficult, I’m just afraid. But navigating a relationship with someone who struggles with commitment can be tricky. You’re in a relationship that may be harder than most, and if the man you’re with doesn’t start to overcome some of the things that prevent him from committing, you may have to walk away. You may desire to have children by a certain age or long for the feeling of stability that marriage provides.
After two months of dating, you shouldn’t be pushing him to get married. As I said before, I believe that one year is a reasonable amount of time to get to know someone.
You won’t know everything, but you should be able to determine whether this relationship is going toward marriage.
“This kind of behavior provides evidence they have selfish tendencies.
The best thing you can do is to always be sure your needs are being met inside the relationship.