Establishing friendships and good relationships with others will offer you the support you need to overcome the ups and downs of military life.
Learn beneficial ways to improve communication in your relationship. Learn to grow and establish trust with your significant other.
Think rationally, logically and wisely about marrying into military life.
Surround yourself with supportive and positive people who see military life in a good light.
They are what many like to call realistic optimists.
but at least i didnt have to 'say the wrong thing to the wrong chick' later on and get SAPR'd Oh downvotes. I straight up called the chick in my class gorgeous and asked her out then and there in line (sure it may have been the whole no sex thing through out bmt) but she is my wife now and is still gorgeous to me.Give the relationship at least a year before making plans for your future. Take your time to know whether this is the life that is right for both of you.The military introduces a unique set of challenges to every marriage–separations, frequent moves, and a demanding job just to name a few.Honesty and trust are the foundation for every strong military relationship.Use this as a time to weigh the positives and negatives of this life.Overall no problems (an im not the most smooth guy) In the dorms from what i've seen it's iffy and sketchy. And nah you'll get much more of your young life than you would otherwise i think.It's a pretty normal thing for people (not i) to go get blitzed, and party like a rockstar before work and a lot of them are over 25I feel like I'm a fairly okay looking dude. It hurt most at the time because my service member and I had been together for years. In the civilian community, people wouldn’t dream of constantly reminding you of “your place.”.Of course, there are a few military girlfriends who give the title a bad name. They take advantage of service members and make poor choices.At my current base, I get an okay number of matches on Tinder/Bumble. I always hear horror stories about dating military guys and have met a couple awful military guys myself (violent, immature, threatened me). In the realm of military men, try to avoid the ones that get caught up in unit drama.