We are dealing with narcissists who are already damaged and primed to do battle. He or she may want to punish you and this can go on for a very long time.
Often the abuser who sees he is losing control will escalate the methods of control and abuse.
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Sometimes that means giving back some of what they dish out.His sense of entitlement is boundless and you will be maligned and disparaged and anything, any crumb you get will be too much for you. If you are not on title of the house, make sure you do this.In his mind, you are worthless, you deserve nothing. Get a support group of therapists, friends, family members.The lies will be bolder and he may manipulate with more intensity. Continued use of the legal system may now be available to him.He will deplete assets to pay attorneys to continue the battle ad nauseum.When you hire a lawyer, do not tell your spouse immediately. Emotion and long stories are not liked by attorneys. It is never too late to hire evaluators or therapists for your side. They are busy, they want cut to the chase information – are there custody issues? If custody will be an issue, be prepared that he will try to alienate your child from you with brainwashing. With the psychopathology of the narcissist you are in for a long battle. Here’s how attorneys use it in divorce: Make sure you have access to all the family funds and accounts.They have tunnel vision when you have become the designated enemy. If you have a lot of money, your tactics will be somewhat different than that of one with lesser money. There will be no mercy shown by your narcissist during this time. Unless it is an inheritance or there is a prenup, family money belongs to both of you.” There is such pathology in this that we must be aware, vigilant, and prepared. Plan without running to everyone and telling them you are divorcing.The legal system is adversarial and full of men and women with tremendous needs for power. You need financial assets to protect yourself and your children. Interview attorneys and make a plan before you tell your spouse what you are doing. The verbal abuser becomes enraged when faced with a partner who has found the power to leave and feels justified in his behavior.