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Dating the ex husband

You spent a large part of your life with this person, and during the years you were together, dating and married, you came to think of that person as YOUR significant other.You two were a couple and to see your spouse with someone else will trigger feelings in you that may be surprising and unpleasant.

Keeping this in mind will help you to accept the changes that have come as a result and the confusing feelings you are having over your ex dating again.Nine years ago, my ex-husband Brian* and I had moved from Austin, Texas, to stay with my best friend Sarah* and her husband Dan* in their New England farmhouse.Brian had just quit his job and I was pregnant with our first child.We figured we would stay with them until Brian could find a job again, and then we would move out. It seemed like a hunky-dory idea, Sarah and Dan, me and Brian — the four of us living happily together, under one roof.After we had our daughter Kim*, Brian convinced me to stay for another two years.Concentrate on the good memories you had and the good times to come.Hooking up after getting divorced isn't all that rare — think of all the history and the sexual tension that might be released after finally calling it quits — but what if the reason you split up was because your husband cheated on you? interviewed one anonymous woman in exactly that situation.Is it possible you are uncomfortable with the idea of your ex dating because you are stuck and unable to move forward with your life?I’m sure you’ve heard that saying, “The best revenge is living well.” Well, it’s true!Every time you experience a negative reaction to your ex dating, stop and go through the list of reasons you are no longer married.Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again.

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