Also does your alarm bell not ring here, Io W has a small fire service and they are mostly retained, don't get many call outs. I tried to communicate with him but it just didn’t work, I put it down to him not caring but I feel that might be unfair.Nope, your first assumption is 100% spot on, are you mad, the man has and is still making a complete mug out of you, Jesus woman, wise up! Agree with others that it's highly likely he's a player.
Our relationship didn’t feel like it was progressing without seeing each other in person, he became more stressed with work and the cuts and I became more anxious that I was never going to see him again and I felt he was not putting much effort in to seeing me at all. To which he put in a group full of people; “I’m asking for you now.” I ignored it and responded to the questions underneath about my leaving, and he put again; “What if some of us need you more than others?
His messages within the group are very inappropriate and I think you'd do well to steer clear of him and not let yourself get carried away by him. Even if you have to fake it till you make it for the meantime. it doesn’t help that initially after he’d chased me and I was cold, I chased him back, ever since then it seemed to be the same. It’s my birthday today and he sent me a message in the group chat AGAIN, at “sorry wanted to do this at and got called out”.
God I hate that he’s done this but I suppose it happens a lot more than people think.
If you need help urgently, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide, which can point you to expert advice and support. Back in Jan, I found out I was pregnant and that I’d lost the baby, I was 2 months pregnant and hadn’t known, I told him and it didn’t really feel as though he was all that with it, he just said it was awful and asked if I was okay and carried on with life. It was going to be difficult because I manage him and all of the other influencers, so I decided to take a step back and let someone else in the business take over to cut all ties.
I met him through work, he’s an influencer in the industry I work in, finally met him late last year when he turned up at a trade show event and came to say hello; it was lust at first sight, saw him, he was gorgeous, 6’4” built like F and had bright blonde hair and blue eyes. A week later, I had a message from him saying it was lovely to have met me and we started chatting from there.