There is a mandatory coat check as there is no place to put your coats, and we don’t want your coats to get damaged or taken by someone else.
If you texted the word “shag” to 31996, that means you only opted in to our text messaging service.
Avoid falling into the trap of not seeing the wood for the trees: There are people left brokenhearted due to being involved with partners who were still affected by a breakup or divorce that happened anything from months to before.
We can take the period of time since the breakup into account but we also need to note whether actions matching words are amounting to somebody who is available for a mutual, consistent, balanced (no pedestals / controlling), progressing relationship that can blossom into increasing intimacy and commitment. It’s very easy to look at a person’s age, background, what they earn, their relationship history, their appearance, their divorce, and whatever else we’re focusing on, and rule them in or out on this basis, but in the end, regardless of any of these things, we still have to assess our own boundaries and do the due diligence. If you typically struggle with the uncertainty that comes with being with somebody who still has their previous relationship to resolve, or you know based on experience that you’ve had your fingers burned by being involved with separated or recently broken up people, don’t go there.
It would be handy if we could avoid the vulnerability that comes with doing the due diligence and taking appropriate action where needed.
If you’ve typically been a Fallback option, it’s best to steer clear of these situations unless you’re absolutely certain that whatever contributed to your previous habits has now changed.Each situation is different but what you can say with a high degree of certainty is that someone who’s just fallen out of their marriage, who’s still in reconciliation negotiations, who’s still very influenced by their spouse, and who has been separated for a long time ‘just because’, is going to bring pain into your life.Same goes for someone who’s not over their divorce and has beliefs that affect their ability to be committed.I’m of a certain age so I need to prepare myself for turning a blind eye to any code amber / red actions and indications because people in this age group tend to be recently broken up / separated / divorced‘. There’s no easy answer to the question of what the ‘right time’ is for dating a separated or recently divorced person.What you have to keep in mind is that separated is still married until the divorce is finalised and that means that there’s likely to be emotional as well as legal ties.The Shag Room will fit approximately 40 people, however we can split the room into 2 sections for parties of 10-20 people.The room is free of charge only if you pre-pay the cover package in advance.Almost, but not every week, we’ll send out a text message with specific instructions to get in the club for free.Please pay attention to the text details because our free admission offers are often limited to a specific time frame.We play dance hits from the 70/80/90’s and more, so come get your groove on!There is only one entrance we use to get in the club.