When a girl tells you she just wants to be friends, there's some fatal relationship/attraction landmine you stepped on and she wants no part of you but wants an emergency exit established.When someone is "just looking for friends" they're establishing right off the bat 'whatever happens happens but I have the right to go 'hehe you're a mistake."Agree/disagree?(and so do you ;) )This is not just a dating site otherwise there would be no option for just looking for talk/email or friends.
Therefore I go through the back door and offer you the false gift of friendship. If the man says lets go hang out and says "lets go dutch"....she can pull the "I cant beleive you asked me out and want me to pay!!! ....she can pull the "I do want a friend, I want a lover and a friend, hoping to find both"If you come across a woman looking for friends, call her bluff, ask her out and when the bill comes say...."well here is my half"..see what kind of reaction you get.....1.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... I haven't heard of any guys legitimately looking for friends on a dating site.
- People who are angry that someone has used "friendship" as a cover story for a guilt-free rejection of them.
- People who are angry about the use of a search for friendship to disguise a search for commitment free sexual experiences.