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Stop being intimidating

And, unless you do something about it, it’s always there at the back of your mind, a constant worry.

It can be as nerve-wracking as a job interview, or even speaking in public.

You’ll find a vulnerable human being, struggling in life, just like you.

Being intimidated is a manifestation of feeling powerless. It’s a small word and one that you hear self-confident people use a lot. Sometimes speaking up can leave you totally tongue-tied as it is.

So, whenever you see a hot girl that you want to approach, remember the above points, be realistic and assume that she is not going to be all that interesting as a woman until and unless she proves otherwise and this will eliminate much of your fear of approaching her.

But here’s the problem: We almost always choose a comparison we can’t win.

If you have to play this game, try changing the rules: . If you feel intimidated because they have a more important sounding job than you, understand that You aren’t your job – and neither are they.

Remember however to step outside your comfort zone not your safety zone.

Like a yoga-newbie, stretch gently at first and soon you’ll amaze yourself at how far you can go.

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  1. Jun 18, 2013. When you feel intimidated, you can stop and redirect yourself down a more. See if you can envision being in the presence of someone who.

  2. Dec 20, 2015. Taking small steps can break the patterns of feeling intimidated for good. Be yourself, work on your self-confidence and stop underestimating.

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  4. Aug 24, 2015. In addition to being a world-renowned comedian, talk show host. I think it's time we stop thinking of the label “intimidating” as a bad thing.

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