And, unless you do something about it, it’s always there at the back of your mind, a constant worry.
It can be as nerve-wracking as a job interview, or even speaking in public.
You’ll find a vulnerable human being, struggling in life, just like you.
Being intimidated is a manifestation of feeling powerless. It’s a small word and one that you hear self-confident people use a lot. Sometimes speaking up can leave you totally tongue-tied as it is.
So, whenever you see a hot girl that you want to approach, remember the above points, be realistic and assume that she is not going to be all that interesting as a woman until and unless she proves otherwise and this will eliminate much of your fear of approaching her.
But here’s the problem: We almost always choose a comparison we can’t win.
If you have to play this game, try changing the rules: . If you feel intimidated because they have a more important sounding job than you, understand that You aren’t your job – and neither are they.
Remember however to step outside your comfort zone not your safety zone.
Like a yoga-newbie, stretch gently at first and soon you’ll amaze yourself at how far you can go.